5 tips for managing money as a couple

Money is a crucial aspect of any relationship, yet it’s often a source of conflict and tension. Whether you’re a new couple starting a serious relationship, or you’ve been in a committed one and are looking to take the next step, it’s inevitable that you’ll be making financial decisions together at some point. From discussing salary and expenses to savings up for any life milestones, navigating the financial landscape as a couple can be a challenge. But it doesn’t have to be that way.

Follow these 5 tips to achieve financial harmony and build a strong, mutually supportive money relationship with your partner.

How to achieve financial harmony in your relationship

1. Communicate openly

Money is a tricky subject, and many couples avoid discussing it entirely, which can lead to misunderstandings, unmet expectations, and even resentment. This can be quite difficult for relationships moving to the next level of resource sharing.

There may be a difference in income, a large debt, or even a nest egg that creates financial disparity. In addition, you and your partner may not share the same approach to financial management. Achieving financial harmony starts with being open and transparent about your entire financial situation — your income, expenses, and any financial concerns.

2. Establish financial goals

The next step is to set realistic financial goals and work hand-in-hand with your partner to achieve them. Whether it’s paying off debt, saving for a big purchase, or investing for the future, having a clear plan will keep you both focused and motivated.

And the key to achieving your financial goals is budgeting. By allocating a budget, you’re able to get a better picture on where your money goes, which in turn, enables you to plan and achieve your financial goals. This ensures that you both stay on track towards a better financial future.

3. Assign roles and responsibilities

Establish a clear understanding of who holds accountability for each financial task. Perhaps one of you is more financially savvy and can take the lead, or you can divide the responsibilities equally. For example, one partner could ensure bills are paid on time while the other manages investments.

4. Review your finances regularly

Regularly reviewing your finances together is an important part of maintaining financial harmony between you and your partner. Whether it’s weekly, monthly or quarterly, take time to assess your spending, check account balances, and make adjustments as needed. This will help to ensure both of your needs are met and that you’re still on track to achieve your financial goals.  

Couples with older children should also consider involving them in these meetings to teach them about financial planning.

5. Seek professional help if needed

If you’re having trouble managing your finances, a financial planner can help you create a plan that works for your specific situation and provide guidance on how to achieve your financial goals. 

If you’re not sure where to get started, leave your details below to get in touch with one of our Financial Planners today. 

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Information is correct as at 14 February 2023.

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